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Thursday, September 25, 2008

Ask Better Questions...


Let's put things in perspective...
Real estate in Lake Chapala, Mexico
by Marie Dwyer-Bullock
www.focusonmexico.com


For my motivational reading this morning I returned to "Awaken the Giant Within" by Tony Robbins. Earlier I had watched the news about the Feds and Congress in the US proposing a massive 'bailout' in the financial sector.

As always, what I was reading gave me the exact answers I needed. We cannot control or change what is happening around us, but we can control how we react to it. How do we do that? The answer: "Ask better questions!"

Always remember "Ask and it is Given" is a Universal Law.
We get what we ask for - whether we want it or not. So if you are sitting there worrying about the devastation of the US Economy and how terrible it is and wondering how it is going to affect your real estate sales in Lake Chapala, Mexico, then so it must be. If you are thinking, people simply cannot afford to buy 'now' or they can't sell their properties north of the border 'now', then so it must be. You will attract exactly those situations.

For just one moment, let's consider a new question.
How about: "How can I use what is happening?"

First let me tell you a story from my past. It was 1980. I had bought an existing Real Estate company that I had been managing for some months. The future looked rosy. That is until the Alberta government, who had previously approved a large expansion in the Oil Industry, decided to cancel the expansion. At the time, it was devastating. When I purchased the company, I took over a five year rental lease on the building and a five year lease on all the equipment. I had made big commitments. What was going to happen?

Prices didn't go down immediately because we didn't have one sale for the next six months.

No sales meant real estate agents leaving the Industry. Listings were a dime a dozen but with no buyers, that just meant advertising costs with no revenue. So what to do?

I had to make a decision - to go with the flow and get out of dodge and maybe declare bankruptcy, or to find a way to turn it around.

I decided that failing wasn't an option for me. I called an emergency meeting of the remaining agents in my office. I told them to bring a lot of quarters (dinero) to the meeting. I placed a glass fish bowl in the middle of the table. I advised that this was a meeting to go forward, not one to cry in the soup and rehash what was happening around us. All negative comments would result in a quarter in the fish bowl.

Next I reminded everyone that in Fort McMurray the temperatures in the winter got to 30 and 40 below zero. People needed to live in houses. They couldn't live on the street. I reminded them that both Syncrude and Suncor Oil Plants were still operational and all those people that had jobs before still had jobs. What had really happened: the big expansion (boom) wasn't going to happen. That wasn't all bad.

Listing prices had come down. It was a perfect time for people to buy real estate and get into the market.


My company,NRS Dwyer Realty, put an ad in the local paper offering: "A great opportunity to get into the real estate market has been presented. Don't wait! NOW is the time to take advantage of price reductions. Stop by our office and enjoy Free Coffee and let us help you find your new home."

Then we went on to emphasize that the reversal of AlSands expansion was really a plus for Fort McMurray. “We were beneficiaries of an incredible amount of new infrastructure without the ‘boom’ that would have happened with AlSands. Many people had good paying jobs and now with the price reductions, they had a perfect window of opportunity to get into the market.” Then we threw in “some examples of great deals outlining what the monthly mortgage payment would be and how much a person would need to make to qualify.”

Because our agents changed their focus from devastation to solution and by putting things in perspective they were able to ask better questions and change how they 'felt' about what was happening around them. They were able to see opportunities for buyers instead of focusing on lack of sales and price reductions. This resulted in turning the market around, slowly but surely.

The market will always be up or down. You cannot change what happens around you. However, you can always control how you react to it.

It is in challenging times where we have to dig deeper and look for solutions, where we must use our creativity. Anyone can be an order taker in good times. But with adversity comes growth.

Ask yourself better questions and the solutions will always present themselves!
Now let’s compare what’s happening out there and the possible implications here on the lakeside.

Of course the US slowdown and the leveling off of prices in Canada will have an initial affect on this area. This is to be expected.

However, it is important to remember a few distinctions.

First: Lake Chapala enjoys three markets, not just one:
  1. Baby Boomers from the US
  2. Baby Boomers from Canada
  3. People from Guadalajara buying weekend homes on the lakeside
This helps balance our local market. Although the local market will be affected by one or the other of the above markets, you have the other markets to draw on.

Second: Most people that own properties here are mortgage free, so therefore they don’t get squeezed into having to drop their price substantially to sell. Most can simply wait it out. Therefore, although our prices may adjust they will not fall into a hole.

Third: The Baby Boomers are going to continue to come to Mexico and Lake Chapala in particular, in big numbers. Many may even decide to leave north of the border sooner than previously planned for the very reason of what’s happening there. When people come on a Focus on Mexico program with plans to retire in a few years, most often they move that date forward once they find out the reduced cost of living here. In addition to the lower cost of living, they are enticed by the near-perfect climate, stress-free and laid back lifestyle, excellent health care, easy access with the airport a mere thirty minutes away and last and most important the wonderful Mexican people.

It is clear it will take some time to recover north of the border. Many people realize this and they are interested in getting on with their lives now so they are actively searching and wanting to make that move. They also realize the number of Boomers that will be coming here over time. They want to get into this market ahead of the herd, while the opportunities are still good.

Some people need to sell their home up north before they can buy here.

For our Focus on Mexico clients who have homes to sell north of the border, we decided to help them reach their goals. Read posted Blog "Help is here! Selling your home in a down market..." a series of emails back and forth between Focus and one of our clients.


With her permission we are able to share the story of one of our client's transformation in not only believing her home(s) there could sell, but her taking a proactive approach in the process. Whether you are a home seller or buyer here or north of the border, or a real estate agent lakeside, we hope you find this useful.

And remember, Ask yourself better questions!

Part III: Help is here! - A Happy Ending

Challenges in life ARE our best teachers!
by Marie Dwyer-Bullock, Lake Chapala Mexico
www.focusonmexico.com


Important Note: Read Part I and Part II before reading Part III

Part I: Economic Slowdown north of the border aggravating sales.
Part II: Empowering ways to help sell your home north of the border. See it first with your heart and manifest it in reality.

Part III below: Attitude is everything. You will always get what you ask for. Thoughts are thinks, choose the good ones.

Below in Part III you will see the power of changing your thoughts. This isn't about positive thinking, as just thinking is not enough. You must shift your thoughts first, but then you must envision and then the real power comes with the feeling and imagining it happening. Then you can move mountains. I hope you enjoy the last blog of this series which reveals how changing how you react to what's happening around you, can change what's happening around you.


Response from client V… to Marie Marie and Kristina,

I am sitting here in tears. What good timing and I am so grateful that Kristina told you, Marie, about what is happening with me. I have had doubts about if I wanted to sell my condo, because it was my dream home and it is beautiful. Marie, after reading what you wrote I realized I am sending out very confusing messages. I do love my condo but it feels empty some how. It does not feel like home. It is pretty and I love the way I decorated it... but it does not feel like I belong here... I decided I will clean my place and get it ready for a showing because my realtor WILL call and I better be ready!

(ring ring... I was interrupted, just now as I am writing this with a phone call from my condo realtor assistant.. she wanted to tell me there is an appointment for a showing Wednesday morning at 10:30!) I am not joking, this just happened! She also told me several people called to inquire about it this weekend... and that their office has been really busy. She is such a positive person I enjoy talking with her. She was involved in my purchase of this condo last year... and she understands where I am coming from... she said "think positively... your condo will sell!" And I just thought about how wonderful it will be for someone to own this condo... it will fulfill someone else’s dream!

My ocean front house can fulfill a dream for another person too.. it is so affordable and has a lot of potential. I know there is someone who would love to look at the sunsets every night and walk to their boat at the marina one house down. There is a family considering it now.... and I pray that it would be a great home for them... if it will help them achieve their goals. See... I am visualizing how happy the new owners will be.

Now I will go and do as you suggest and visualize living in my beautiful home in Ajijic. Playing scrabble with friends, petting my dog, painting and making a difference some how.

Your email is so much what I needed to read. The universe, for me: God.... I understand faith and the positive thinking that you describe is one more tool to help me tell God what it is that I need... I have such a strong belief that Ajijic is where God wants me to be at this time in my life. Thank you both for caring!
Love from V

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A follow up email from V…
(sent to Focus and bcc to everyone on her Focus program)

Every morning I wake up with a burning desire to move to Mexico. At times I have thought, oh... just be happy where I am and visit Ajijic a few times a year... get a job... bloom where planted... live in the moment.. yada yada yada.

In the evenings, I am OK with staying in Canada. Then I think about my friends (those on the Bcc line) who are living there, are in the process of moving there, or will move in the near future. I am so happy for those of you who are in the process and so grateful that you have shared your excitement with me. All of you are the type of people who enrich the lives of those who know you.

Kristina and Marie (from Focus on Mexico) you two are both powerful women who I think of when I get discouraged. You made up your minds when you wanted to move to Mexico and you let nothing stand in your way.

Sara, my Real Estate agent. You are an inspiration and I know when I move there that you will continue to be. The stories you have told me, about your life and relationship with the lord, really help me.

MY REQUEST
Quick update: I have had a couple of showings of my condo and three of my house in the past week that all went well. People here are really taking their time making decisions as there is so much available. As my realtor told me the saying is "The sellers are looking back and the buyers are looking forward". Buyers are hesitant to purchase anything that has not dropped in price significantly. So there are people who are interested in both properties. They are both incredible values as I have just dropped the price, again, on them.

So here is the thing…. Just kind of a fun experiment. Can you all just spend a minute visualizing me packing up and moving to Mexico? Think of me signing the papers to sell my homes… maybe both of them the same week! See me giving away a truck load of stuff to the Salvation Army. Can you see me meeting you at the plaza in Ajijic? Its Market day and we are all raving about the beautiful produce available in the winter! If you are inclined to pray… could you add a little prayer that find a way to move to Mexico before the end of November? I really need to be there.

LESSONS I HAVE LEARNED THROUGH ALL OF THIS
Patricia really helped me see this…. life is here, now, and we have to appreciate every minute. Life is not a balance sheet…. staying here because I hate to see the "Net Worth" drop due to selling my homes at a low point of the market….. that just seems foolish. Numbers on a paper are just that. It Is how you take what you have to support what is important to you that matters.

Now…. I hope I can fulfill someone else's dream of living on the ocean or Lake Okanagan by dropping my prices into the range they can afford!

God Bless you all.
V…
(I have attached my photo in case you need help with the visualization and have not seen me for a while!)

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In response to Marie’s request to be able to share this story
Hi Marie
Thanks and YES... do share this with anyone who could use the help. Marie, I had to realize that I have a choice. If I sell my property I can retire in Mexico and have money to travel, time to volunteer, time to be creative. How lucky is that? So many people simply do not have a choice. They have negative balance sheets and are slaves to paying off debt. To trade in those positive "numbers", on my balance sheet, for freedom is a gift I should not ignore. And.... I have my health today... who knows about tomorrow.
God Bless!
V…

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Sometimes we need to help our clients help themselves and give them the support and encouragement to make their dreams come true. I hope this one client’s inspiration will inspire others and help them along their path.